Last week we saw the movie “Courageous” - about several police officers who resolve together to live as the kind of fathers God calls them to be in His Word. On this level, it’s a good challenge to Christian men to embrace their God-pleasing vocation as fathers, to care for their families and to teach their children the fear and love of God.
The outline behind the resolution and the challenge in the story seems to be this: God is a just judge over every person. Since every just judge judges a person based on the wrongs they have done, this is how God will judge us also. However, He sent Jesus to pay the penalty for our sins and accept the judgment of God in our place. Nevertheless, since in His Word He has given clear instructions as to how He wants us to live (particularly as fathers), we should accept that we are accountable to Him for that life. The movie suggests that one of the ways we can do that is to gather together a small group of like-minded Christians to resolve to live according to God’s instruction and to hold one another accountable to that resolution.
Here’s the problem I have with this scenario: the film proposes that the motivation for these men (and for all fathers) to accept the challenge is founded on the metaphor of God as judge – and this metaphor cannot help but hold us to a life of accountability even after we say that Jesus has taken the judgment onto Himself. Because that’s the way the legal system works, isn’t it? Even if someone else has paid that traffic fine, you still have to watch the way you drive so you don’t appear before the judge again on a greater charge. So to live this way you always have to be looking over your shoulder - unless of course you can gather an “accountability group,” in which case other people can be looking over your shoulder with you.
When the filmmakers made this film they totally missed the opportunity to show us a way better and more obvious image of God– the image of God as Father! After all, the focus of the film was on the lives and ways of the fathers, but nowhere was there any mention at all of God as Father nor a suggestion that we might live as earthly fathers not in fear of a judge to whom we are accountable but in imitation of the Father who loves us all.
There was one scene that was just a wondrous, Gospel-soaked image that I wish the filmmakers had done more with. In it, one of the fathers takes his teenage daughter out to dinner to a fancy restaurant where he explains to her his resolution to protect her, to cherish her, to nurture her into womanhood, and to ask for her to join him in seeking the guidance and the love of God in bringing to her the man that He ultimately has in mind for her to marry. The dad gives her a beautiful ring as a sign of that love and promise to her, and she is just enthralled with it and with him.
How like the Father that Jesus taught! The Father who provides for His child, who cares for her (or him), who nurtures and protects and loves that child and does everything for her because He loves her. And the child does not need to do anything to have that love – he loves her just because she is his child. In the movie the father asks nothing from his daughter except that she accept his fatherhood over her, and this she gladly does as she accepts the ring he gives her. And so it is with the Father that God is, too – loving any of us just because we are His child, protecting, nurturing, and asking nothing from us except that we accept His fatherhood over us, too.
And because He has first loved us as our Father, so we turn and love our children and our families and one another in the family of God. This is the true path of courage.